PLEASE POST YOUR PICS

Hey there
Thanx B & C ... & N & D for tryin 2 clear things up bout pics, honesty & integrity. We r all here 2 have some naughty fun but there are certain rules & boundaries ppl need 2 accept & respect. Honesty is somethin i think ppl hav forgotten bout. We're also 1st timers but very much younger than most ppl on this site or most sites we visit & its intimidating especially 2 my wife when we get approached by men pretending 2b couples. It makes it even harder for us 2 trust any1 & allow them in2 our private space. Good luck 2 u & the others using this site. Happy swinging

I totally agree that if someone does not want to send you actual pictures it is a red flag, and if the pictures are of a concealing nature youknow you are in for some deception.

I am just talking of your profile pic. At least try and make it interesting! Is anoyne else turned off if all you see is a cock pic for a profile pic?

I am still trying to figure out how to post actual pics on here - beside the profile.

Will let you know how that goes - for anyone else - if you want to see me just ask I will mail you some pics - okay

DITTO B&C

How could we say no to a few drinks nas ? . Yes, i think we should meet . About this fake pictures , i do completly agree, and its ridiculous . We are not going to judge someone by his appearance but who he is, at least its how we see it . I truly believe that honesty is the best policy . Now where i have a problem is with single guys posing as couples or saying that they can bring a woman along . Some ppl might want it, but its not what we want even if its in our profile. Pls single guys out there, you need to understand that we are not desperate to get laid . We want to share an experience and fun times with another loving couple

Hi guys

Sam has a good idea and if it works for him cool. We only reply the people with personal pics though, because from our experience people have tried to con us with false pics.
Our advice is hide your face in the pic, as we've done with the pic of my wife. It doesn't have to be an explicit pic, just a pic to know.

Sam, we also met a guy online that posted a pic that reflected him or at least his personality, but unfortunately when we met him, he was not at all what we imagined. As a matter of fact my wife was extremely upset, to say the least, for reasons I will not reveal, as we do not want to seem prejudice ......... by will say that he had some physical characteristics that did not appeal to us...........

So people must also be careful of this type of personal advertising......... anyway, we're all on a swinging forum site here, so we've all got to consider that we've basically taken the next step, and being inhibited is a little overrated here, don't you think (just our opinion)

To everyone out there who would like to keep anonymous until they are comfortable with someone here is a great tip. Post a profile pic that is somehow reflective of you and or personality.

Also please add info to your profiles.

Mine is a single guy (because I am alone) outdoors - and no face is visible - this indicates i am not faking who i am i am just being cautious.

I have been to many other social sites and these are good prcatices learned form those.

Have fun and be safe

SAM

Yes nuzzling............... amongst other things ............. remember she's totally bi and we're completely a-racial.......... if that's a good term........... I mention that because I noticed that some peeps still have a kaleidoscopic view of the world............ they don't know what they're missing.......................... we should get together some time for a few drinks if that's all we do...... think we'll get along ................ I get back to SA beginning of May.......... wanna meet?

Lol. You are making my girl blush ( as much as a black girl can blush ) but i do agree completely with you , and i am quite fond of her coconuts ( nudge nudge monty pythons ) . So your wife is into nuzzling ?

Hi B&C

Sure, getting the right pic is I guess not easy, but most people misunderstand the concept I think.
It shouldn't be a Hustler pose perfect body porno flick cover pic......... just wanna see what you getting yourself into when meeting new peeps.

Anyway, you found a good pic for you profile........ girl's got nice breasts, nudge nudge, wink wink, know what I mean, know what I mean........ my wife'll like to nuzzle those, nudge nudge, wink wink, know what I mean know what I mean (lol...... Just a Monty Python spoof... not to be taken seriously, or......... if you into it....... to be take seriously........... )

Lol,its so true, but the most difficult is still to find a "decent " picture

Hi all

We all joined this forum because we'd like to meet new people, make new friends, hook up with new playmates, and in general have uninhibited, liberal fun.

But responding to PMs and mails, and not having a pic attached to the profile, leaves a person with a bit of scepticism about the person PMing you.

We've had some replies from people on our sites, and through Gumtree (R.I.P.), and it ended up that they weren't who they say they were at all.

And to all the men out there, stop making fools of yourselves pretending to be couples or women just to take a chance to get laid. This hasn't happened on this site yet, but from our past experience it has happened.

In all our experience about 98% of all replies have been people falsely "advertising" themselves, or people that just wanna play games, and never follow through.
You guys gotta understand that when we as a couple arrnage to meet someone, it means our time, effort and all other arrangements that have to be made, and then to be stood up is just heartbreaking, considering all the effort we've made.

So come 0n guys, lets make this THE site for meeting and playing.......... without al the BS........ and please PLEASE post a pic.